Women and Islam

Women and Islam

By Remona Aly, journalist and broadcaster
  • WHAT THE KORAN SAYS
    • The Koran states that men and women were created as equal.
    • “The believing men and women are supportive and protective friends unto each other. They enjoin the right, forbid the wrong, establish regular prayer, pay the poor due, and are dutifully obedient to God and His Messenger. They will receive the Mercy of God. Surely, God is Almighty, Wise.” (Koran 9:71)
    • One of the fundamental aspects of Islamic equality has its roots in the story of Adam and Eve. Both Adam and Eve (Hawa in Arabic) are equally responsible, when they both eat from the forbidden tree. The Koran uses the Arabic dual form to illustrate their shared culpability. The Koran states that “Satan caused both of them to stumble.” Both Adam and Eve repented, and both were forgiven and begin a new shared destiny on earth.
    • The equality in the Islamic Adam and Eve story undermines the entire discourse that says women are inferior or secondary to men. There is no notion that women were created for men.
    • The verse: “Women have the same rights (in relation to their husbands) as are expected in all decency from them, while men stand a step above them” (Koran 2:228) has mistakenly led to some believing in male gender superiority. But this verse specified the degree of responsibility, not privilege, in a man’s role as provider, protector, and maintainer of the family.

    WHAT THE HADITH SAYS

    • The hadith is the sayings, actions and teachings of Prophet Muhammad.
    • “Women are the twin halves of men” (Narrated by Tirmidhi)
    • “The believers who show the most perfect faith are those who have the best morals, and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives.” (Tirmidhi)
    • “Only an honourable man treats women with honour and integrity. And only a mean, deceitful and dishonest man humiliates and insults women” (Tirmidhi)

    RIGHTS

    • Women had the right to vote and to political and civic participation.
    • Women could participate in the military. During the Battle of Uhud, Umm Umara Nusaybah bint Ka’ab valiantly defended the Prophet Muhammad on the battlefield, sustaining 12 wounds in the process.
    • Islam ensured women their property rights. If a woman owned any property before marriage, she retained that property after marriage. In context, women did not have the right to own their own property in Europe until the 19th century.
    • Muslim women retained their own surname and did not have to adopt that of their husband.
    • Muslim women had the right to divorce instantly on returning the dowry. In Sharia (Islamic religious law) the husband has to agree for the divorce to take place (unless she has a prenuptial agreement).
    • Muslim women gained full ownership over their money, while husbands had the responsibility to provide for them.
    • Women could work, as the verse in the Koran specifies: “Whatever men earn, they have a share of that and whatever women earn, they have a share in that.” (Koran 4:32)
    • Rather than Islam giving women a right to education, it was rather a duty for every female and male to seek knowledge. “Seeking knowledge is an obligation upon every Muslim.” (Al-Tirmidhi)

    LEADERSHIP

    • Muslim women have historically, although mostly exceptionally, held leadership roles.
    • The Koran mentions the Queen of Sheba, named as Bilqis in Islamic commentaries, who displays wisdom and intellect in her leadership.
    • For most of his life, the Prophet had only one wife, Khadijah, until she died. She was a businesswoman and proposed marriage to the Prophet Muhammad. She was the first person who believed his initial revelations were legitimate. His next wife, Aisha bint Abi Bakr, was a scholar and teacher, and famously led an army in the Battle of the Camel, to avenge the death of the third Caliph, though she later regretted this action.
    • Women have also held political leadership roles in countries like Indonesia, Egypt, Senegal, Afghanistan, Pakistan, and Bangladesh.

    WOMEN AND THE MOSQUE

    • In 622, Prophet Muhammad built the first mosque in Medina. The Muslims migrated here from Mecca where they faced persecution. Men and women prayed in the same space in the Prophet’s Mosque of Medina, without a barrier.
    • Hadith: “Do not stop women from going to God’s mosques” (Sahih al-Bukhari 900; Sahih Bukhari English translation: Vol 2, Book 13, Hadith 23)
    • Women and men have the same obligations in worship. The only difference lies in where they perform the Friday congregational prayers, known as “Juma”, held after midday: women are not obliged to attend congregational Friday prayers, whereas men are. However they have the option to attend.
    • Mosques in most Muslim countries serve both male and female worshippers. In China, female-only mosques have existed for centuries.
    • While most mosques in the UK serve both men and women, nearly a third of mosques in Britain do not accommodate women. Some mosque committees (largely from the South Asian communities) believe women should not pray in a mosque, but rather at home, even though, Islamically, women were active members of the mosque 14 centuries ago.
    • In the vast majority of mosques, men and women sit separately, the women pray in rows behind the men if they are sharing the same space. During the pilgrimage in Mecca, men and women may walk side by side in front of the Kaaba and may pray next to each other, but generally prayer is in designated spaces.

    FEMALE IMAMS

    • Generally, women can lead female-only congregations.
    • For the majority of Muslim societies, a female imam cannot lead a mixed congregation of men and women, partly due to the reason that women are to pray behind men so that their form is not looked upon when they bow down and prostrate.
    • There has been some debate around whether a female imam can lead a mixed congregation in prayer. This has formed largely around a prophetic narration concerning Umm Waraqa, whom the Prophet appointed as a female imam. Umm Waraqa knew the entire Koran by heart and was instructed by Muhammad to lead a prayer congregation for the “people of her home”. The Arabic word for home, “dar”, can refer to one’s residence, neighbourhood, or village. The people of Umm Waraqa’s home were so numerous that Muhammad appointed a muezzin to call them to prayer. Some modern scholars have said that a knowledgeable woman could lead a mixed prayer in her home.
    • The American-African Muslim scholar, Amina Wadud, who is known for her progressive reading of Koranic exegesis, led a mixed-congregation for Friday prayers in the United States in 2005, which drew both criticism and some support. But the vast majority of Muslim scholars do not allow females to lead mixed congregations in prayer.

    MODESTY AND THE HIJAB

    • Modesty is a quality encouraged for both women and men in Islam. “Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their modesty, and say to the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their modesty.” (Koran 24:30–31)
    • The guidelines around modest dress differs for men and women. For some women, it can extend to covering more parts of the body, including the hair. Muslim women interpret modesty in their own diverse and unique understandings as a form of self-expression.
    • The Arabic word for head-covering is “khimar”, yet hijab, which literally means “covering”, “veil”, or “barrier”, has come to mean headscarf in common parlance. This can be influenced by the community culture, family roots, legal tradition and local mosque. “They should let their headscarves [khumur – plural of khimar] fall to their necklines and not reveal their charms beyond [what is acceptable] to reveal.” (Koran 24:31)
    • In seventh-century Arabia before the revelation of the Koran, the khimar was worn to cover the hair but was tied behind the neck, leaving the upper chest bare. This verse ordered that the khimar now be drawn over the chest, so that the neck and chest were not exposed.
    • “O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their outer garments all over their bodies. That will be better, that they should be known so as not to be annoyed. And God is Ever Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful.” (Koran 33:59)
    • The consensus of Muslim scholars is that the headscarf is obligatory, yet some critics believe that covering the hair is not required in 21st-century western society.
    • The hijab is worn in front of non-related males.
    • The hijab is not worn in front of male relatives, like fathers, brothers, sons, uncles, grandfathers and so on, or in front of women and children.
    • A niqab is a veil that covers the hair and the face, leaving the area around the eyes uncovered. The niqab is not mentioned in the Koran and the overwhelming majority of scholars say that the niqab is optional at most. Some hadith stated that the Prophet Muhammad himself taught women they need not wear a niqab. “When a woman reaches the age of puberty, nothing should be seen of her except for this and this [pointing to the hands and the face]” (Narrated by Sunan Abu Dawood). When on pilgrimage to Mecca, it is forbidden to wear a niqab.
    • The niqab has been worn culturally by women for centuries mainly in the Arabian Peninsula.

    OPPRESSION OF WOMEN

    • Many interpretations of Islamic texts have been influenced by restrictive patriarchal readings, oppressive cultural customs and social context. The message of justice and equality in Islam does not match up to the daily realities that Muslims women face. Misogyny is a factor in many Muslim communities. Women face an abuse of divinely sanctioned rights, along with facing the obstacles of social and cultural barriers.
    • In contrast to the Koranic verse, “There is no compulsion in religion” (Koran 2:256), and in contrast to the Islamic principle of freedom, women’s dress and rights have been state imposed in some Muslim countries, such as Saudi Arabia and Iran.

    POLYGAMY

    • Polygamy existed in many cultures and religions, but Islam sought to limit the practice rather than promote it.
    • There is only one verse that mentions polygamy in the Koran: “And if you have reason to fear that you might not act equitably towards orphans, then marry from among [other] women such as are lawful to you – [even] two, or three, or four: but if you have reason to fear that you might not be able to treat them with equal fairness, then [only] one – or [from among] those whom you rightfully possess. This will make it more likely that you will not deviate from the right course.” (Koran 4:3)
    • This verse was revealed after the Battle of Uhud in 624, between the Muslims and their Meccan oppressors. The battle claimed the lives of many Muslim men, leaving behind widows and orphans.
    • Today, monogamous marriages are the norm among the vast majority of Muslims.

    IMPORTANT WOMEN IN ISLAM

    • Mary is a highly respected figure in Islam as a woman of great piety, honour and dignity. She is the only woman named in the Koran and there is an entire chapter named after her. In the Quran, Mary is not referred to as the “mother of Jesus”, it is Jesus who is referred to as the “son of Mary”. The Koran states that Mary was “chosen and purified” by God. It also states: “And when the angels said, ‘O Mary, indeed God has chosen you, purified you, and chosen you above the women of the worlds’.” (Koran 3:42).
    • Khadijah bint Khuwaylid was Prophet Muhammad’s first and most beloved wife. Khadijah was a successful businesswoman and was the first to accept Islam. She was Prophet Muhammad’s chief adviser and foremost supporter. She gave her wealth to the poor, orphans, widows and the sick.

    IMPORTANT MUSLIM WOMEN IN HISTORY

    • Umm Darda, the seventh-century jurist and scholar from Syria. She taught imams, jurists, and reportedly taught the fifth Umayyad caliph. She is one among a rich but lost legacy of female scholars in Islam. A modern-day Oxford based Indian male scholar, Shaykh Akram Nadwi, discovered over 8,000 accounts of female scholars, who were experts in theology, law, philosophy and calligraphy.
    • Rabia al-Adawiyya, born in eighth-century Basra, was the first female Sufi saint. Rabia was arguably the most influential Sufi woman in Islamic history, influencing centuries of Islamic philosophy and mysticism.
    • Fatima al-Firhi, the daughter of a wealthy merchant, established the world’s oldest existing university of al-Quaraouiyine, in Fez, Morocco, in 859. She also founded one of the world’s oldest libraries in the university.
    • Lubna of Cordoba, the 10th-century Andalusian mathematician, poet, grammarian and copyist. She was the palace secretary of Caliph Abdul Rahman III and his son al-Hakam ibn Abdul Rahman. She headed the royal library, then the world’s biggest, which contained more than half a million books.
    • Razia Sultana ruled the Delhi Sultanate from 1236-1240, the only woman to do so. She encouraged trade, built roads, supported the arts, constructed schools and libraries, and sought to protect her Hindu subjects.
    • Zubayda bint Abu Ja’far, born in eighth-century Baghdad, was the wealthiest and most powerful woman in the world of her time. She was the wife of Harun ar-Rashid, the fifth Abbasid caliph. She developed buildings in cities, and established wells, reservoirs and artificial pools all the way along the pilgrimage route from Baghdad to Mecca. She was also a patron of the arts and poetry.

     

    FURTHER READING

    • Reclaiming the Mosque, Jasser Auda, Claritas Books, 2017
    • Al-Muhaddithat: The Women Scholars in Islam, Mohammad Akram Nadwi, Interface Publications, 2007
    • The Social Involvement of Women in Islam, Imam Zaid Shakir, zaytuna.org
    • Quran and Woman: Rereading the Sacred Text from a Woman’s Perspective, Amina Wadud. Oxford University Press
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